Cari Miei,
OH MY GOSH TINA IS PREGNANT!! (and she's gonna have a baby too! ;) ) best news of the WHOLE WEEK! woot woot woot! Tantissimi auguri to dantzel and oliver! You guys are going to make the greatest parents and I could not be more thrilled! Cant wait to snuggle that little nugget :)
Well you guys, I gotta be honest, this week was a bit of a rough one for us over here in Pozzuoli. Lucia passing away hit us all pretty hard - both members and missionaries. As I wrote last week, we found out on Monday that she had passed away. We made a few phone calls to the members and found out that the funeral would either be Tuesday night or Wednesday morning. The only problem was that we were supposed to be going up to Rome those days to have our zone conference. So when we found out that was when the funeral would be we werent quite sure waht to do. We talked it over, gave President Waddoups a call, and decided that it would be best for us to stay. Which just felt right. It was a really hard time for our members and we all really felt like we needed to be here to help and support them.
The way it ended up happening actually turned out to be a huge tender mercy. Because we had all planned to go to zone conference none of us had made any plans for Tuesday or Wednesday. Which was a huge blessing because that meant we could spend all Tuesday making preparations for the funeral, and on Wednesday we were all available to go. Lucia's husband respected her wishes and allowed us to do the funeral in our church building - which is incredible because he is pretty against the church. But also it was really rare. Funerals always take place in Catholic churches here. In fact, this was the first funeral that our members had ever done. That being said, nobody had any idea what to do. So basically what ended up happening was that the missionaries and the American members put it together. So it was a crazy day but in the end we all made it happen. It was a really hard time but it felt like we were in the right place doing the right thing, and we were glad we could help.
The next morning was the funeral. I always knew that my mission would be difficult, but I never would have imagined that this would be something I would have to go through. The service was beautiful, but it was a really hard. They had the missionaries do the musical numbers, and Sorella Anderson and I were asked to sing for the opening song. I thought it would be nice to sing "Where can I turn for Peace" because that was Lucia's favorite song that we would sing when we went to visit her in the hospital. Turns out when it was time to sing it at the funeral it just all got too real and I couldn't make it through the song without shedding some tears. But it brought a beautiful spirit to the meeting. Some of the members of our church then got up and shared their testimonies. It was very touching, but also really difficult. I just love these people here so much, it was really hard to see them all so sad.
Needless to say, it was a bit of a tough day. But, as they always do, this trial has taught me so much and I have grown closer to my Father in Heaven because of it. I am grateful that through this experience my testimony of the plan of salvation has been strengthened. I am so grateful for the knowledge that the restored gospel gives us. I am glad to know that even if not especially during difficult times I have a Father in Heaven who loves and knows me perfectly and who is looking out for me.
Unfortunately for us, that wasn't the end of the bad news this week. We got a call on Thursday saying that Peppe had fell and that he was in the hospital. We weren't able to go see him until the next day when we found out that he has broken both of his legs so he will be in the hospital for the next few weeks. You know Peppe though, it hasn't slowed him down for a second. His testimony is only stronger because of it. It is hard to see someone you love so much be hurting, but we know he will be alright. There's no one quite like Peppe.
So we had our struggles this week, but there was some light at the end of the tunnel! This weekend we were finally able to meet with Massimo. His treatments are finally lightening up so he was feeling well enough to meet with us. You guys he is absolutely incredible. I have never met somebody so prepared to recieve the gospel. We talked to him this week about personal revelation and how he can recieve his own testimony. Little did we know he's already got one. As we were talking he stopped us and said "I have been searching for the truth for years and years. I have been studying with countless religions. Never did I find in any of them what I have found here with you. I have only read the first few pages, but everytime I read this book (the Book of Mormon) I feel the greatest peace and happiness inside of me. I know it is true. I am so grateful to God for helping me to meet you people to put me on the right path." Then he went on to tell us that in these few weeks that we havent seen him he has been doing missionary work. Haha his daughter now wants to take the lessons with him, and he has a friend that he wants to bring to church. So incredible.
Later that day we were also able to meet with Amalia, and we had a really great lesson with her. You can never go wrong with some conference recap :) she absolutely loved it. She asked us how she could watch all the talks again, and the ones she missed. We watched President Uchtdorfs talk with her and talked to her about what she needs to do to recieve her own personal testimony of light and truth. Basically what it comes down to is that she has got to make a choice. God will never be able to tell her whether or not she is doing the right thing if she doesnt act. With that, she agreed to choose her own baptismal date and to go forward and see what answer she will recieve. So we'll be needing extra prayers for her this week!
The week finished of strong with a great day in church yesterday. Massimo finally came! and he absolutely loved it. Our members were awesome and fellowshipped him right in. When we asked him how he liked church he said "i just cant believe it...i have had this spiritual thirst for years that is finally being filled!" So great that he was finally able to come. Also Antonella came to chruch, and stayed for the entire sacrament meeting! So great progress on that one as well. Also, super random but also super awesome, some random couple that Sorella Baker and I met on the street months ago came to church! At the time we met them they didnt seem super interested, but I guess right now they are searching for more peace in their lives so they decided they wanted to try coming to church. All in the Lords timing! Also not nearly as important, but I did the translation this week! I was scared out of my mind, but it all ended up working out fine. So all in all church was a great success :)
Well I feel like I should congratulate anyone who made it to the end of this email. Haha sorry it was a bit intense this week. Needless to say we had our ups and downs, but in the end it was such a huge testimony builder that this is the Lords work. Regardless of the circumstance we can always turn to Him to find peace, comfort, and guidance. I am so grateful for the opportunity to be a missionary. I love being a part of this work. Thank you for all your love, support, and prayers. I love you all and I will talk to you next week!
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